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Join us HERE Monday, November 23, at 6 PM for Holiday Hope

A panel of experts including Rev. Earl Nichols, Dr. Jimmy Elder, Rev. Dr. Johnny Flakes, Rev. Tom Waynick, and Dr. Angela Sims will be discussing the effects of COVID-19 and Grief during this holiday season.

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www.pastoralinstitute.org/holiday 
www.firstbaptistcolumbusga.com | First Baptist Church, Columbus, GA 
www.4thst.org | Fourth Street Missionary Baptist Church


Tips for Grieving through the Holidays by David Kessler 

1.      Give yourself permission to cancel the holidays

2.      Be honest about your grief

3.      Include the loss in the holidays (i.e. with candles, food, prayer, stories, etc.)

4.      Re-evaluate your rituals (Live with “it’ll do” for Christmas)

5.      Pay attention to the children (i.e. model appropriate grieving for them)

6.      Don’t be surprised at what triggers you

7.      Remember, they don’t understand your grief

8.      At events have a planned exit strategy

9.      Remember “No.” is a complete sentence

10.  Don’t forget pets. If you love is real, your grief is real

11.  Take your grief “on-line”

12.  Remember: You can have grief bursts and love bursts


Resources For Grieving

Grieving the Loss of Spouses and Partners

            C.S. Lewis, A Grief Observed

            Alan A. Wolfelt, Healing a Spouse’s Wounded Heart: 100 Practical Ideas When Your Husband or Wife Dies

            Carole Brody Fleet and Syd Harriet, Widows Wear Stilettos: A Practical Guide for the Young Widow

            Carol Brody Fleet and Lisa Kline, A Guide to Getting Through (and Beyond) the Grief of Widowhood


For General Loss

            Pat Schwiebert and Chuck DeKlyen, A Recipe for Healing After Loss

            Alan Wolfelt, Understanding Your Grief: Ten Essentials for Finding Hope and Healing for Your Heart


For Grieving Children

            Patrice Karst, The Invisible String

            Marge Heegaard, With Someone Very Special Dies

            Doris Stickney and Claudia Ortiz, Waterbugs and Dragonflies: Explaining Death to Children


For Grieving Parents

            Judith Berenstein, When the Bough Breaks: Forever After the Death of a Son or Daughter

            Ellen Mitchell, and Rita Volpe, Beyond Tears:  Living after Losing a Child


For Suicide Loss

            Jack Jordan, After Suicide Loss: Coping with Your Grief

            Barbara Rubel, But I Didn’t Say Goodbye


Online Resources

AChildInGrief.com

Dougy.org/resource

HelloGrief.org

ModernLoss.com

Scholastic.com/childrenandgrief

SharedGrief.org

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